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Now For the Big News: Divorce Is Not Your Only Option
Extra! Extra! Read all about it! Divorce is not the answer to all of your problems. all the news or noticias de hoy are here : It will not magically make you happy, prosperous, or unencumbered by responsibilities again. It will not be the key to everything you feel you haven't gotten out of life. Even though people today tend to think of divorce as the only way out of a marriage that isn't everything they had hoped it would be, it's not the portal that leads to fulfillment in life. Neither is continuing to live with an unhappy marriage. Don't get fooled into thinking these are the only two options that you have, because there is a much better third choice out there waiting for you. You can both stop your divorce and improve your marriage if you're willing to make the effort.

It's easy to allow yourself to feel that if only you could shed yourself of your current situation all the problems in life would go away. Unfortunately, statistics show this is not true. In the majority of cases, people are not happier once they've dissolved their marriages. Instead, they find themselves overburdened with work, children, and substantially less cash. Rather than take the plunge into the unknown of singlehood, it's better to ride out the situation, take steps to improve it, and discover that five years down the road, you are actually happy you stuck with it.

The first thing you need to do is realize that no marriage is perfect. Every happy couple you see has problems they are dealing with. What sets them apart, however, is how they are handling these situations. If you went into your marriage filled with blissful visions of future happiness with the perfect spouse, it's no wonder that you're already discouraged. Even when your heart is tied together with that of another person, you will still start seeing things that annoy you. Maybe these are qualities you ignored during your state of bliss, but eventually you are going to start noticing them. If you're smart, you'll also start accepting them as a part of that person you love.

For most of us, it's a struggle to see our dreams disappear into the cloud of reality. We want to lash out and blame someone for this occurrence, and our spouse is the perfect scapegoat. You start telling yourself that your world is falling apart because your husband fails to close the toilet lid or your wife hangs her panty hose in the bathroom, and pretty soon you start seeing other, similar clues that tell you your spouse is the cause of your discontent.

It's definitely time for an attitude adjustment when this phenomenon begins. Your own happiness depends on you, and no one else can make you happy. In most cases, divorce isn't the cover-all answer, it's just the start of even more problems in your life hoy.